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January 6, 2010 By Fausta

The negative side of positive thinking, Obama, and the roundup

Michael Fumento reviews Barbara Ehrenreich’s book, Bright Sided: How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America, in his article, The Negative Side Of Positive Thinking

Unhinged optimism is pervasive, but the real culprits are those who profit from it: motivational speakers and writers, “life coaches” and various gurus, as well as the “pastorpreneurs” of the “prosperity gospel” movement. These chuck aside Christ’s teachings to declare that “God wants us to … have plenty of money to fulfill the destiny He has laid out for us.”

Yet all these scoundrels themselves admit positivism is a mass delusion, describing it variously as “self-hypnosis,” “mind control” and “thought control.” In other words, says Ehrenreich, “it requires deliberate self-deception, including a constant effort to repress or block out unpleasant possibilities and ’negative’ thoughts.”

If it isn’t obvious to you why blissful ignorance isn’t a good goal, Ehrenreich provides numerous reasons.

For the cancer patient who’s told malignancies can be eliminated with cheerfulness, “failure” weighs “like a second disease,” she says. Indeed, while you constantly hear that you can have it all if only you believe that you can, Ehrenreich says, “there is the darker message that if you don’t have all that you want, if you feel sick, discouraged, or defeated, you have only yourself to blame.”

Likewise, in our moral system, says Ehrenreich, “either you look on the bright side, constantly adjusting your attitude and revising your perceptions—or you go over to the dark side.” As Anthony on the Twilight Zone would have put it, “You’re a very bad man!” Next thing you know, you’ve been whisked away to the corn field.

You see, negative attitudes not only drag you down but are contagious, hence the advice of many motivational speakers and writers and “life coaches” to, as one book exhorts, “GET RID OF NEGATIVE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE.” But eschewing realists and pessimists is dangerous because they act as a brake on irrational exuberance. Maybe your mood should be deflated.

I have had to distance myself from negative people, but it was not because they “acted as a brake on irrational exuberance”; it was because they were undermining actively every damn thing I attempted to do. There’s a difference.

I read Ehrenreich’s book, recommend it, and agree with Michael and his conclusion,

The Serenity Prayer’s invocation to have “courage to change the things I can” and “to accept the things I cannot” is a much better guide than anything Dale Carnegie ever wrote or that your life coach has to offer. Just remember that while life can be beautiful, pretending it is doesn’t make it so.

Not unrelated, ShrinkWrapped’s post, The legacy of teaching “self-esteem” in our schools

Here we have the legacy of the “Self Esteem” movement that has swept through Academia: It is bad enough that we are being led by a collection of overmatched, overeducated, under-experienced collection of empty suits; now we should also be expected to give them credit for how hard they are trying.

And, on top of that, we should be repressing negative thoughts about what a lousy job they are doing.

Joe Lima sent a link to Storyboarding the News: How the MSM Turned the Honduran Crisis into A Comic Book:

That is a storyboard that President Obama knows well and, as the Harvard law school graduate seems to prefer, one that requires little prudence and scant knowledge of the specific case at hand.

So on the day after a unanimous (15-0) ruling of the Honduran Supreme Court, a majority being justices from Mel Zelaya’s own party including those appointed to the court by Zelaya himself, U.S. President Barack Obama declared to a TV news camera that the Honduran “coup” was “not legal.”

No evidence was presented nor expected. On an MSM storyboard, balanced legal analysis is confusing, it hobbles the narrative. An easier fit is to offer news converted into a comic strip. Only pictures matter.

Because it’s all about the comic strip, the “feel good”, the quick fix – and the failure to admit failure.

Let’s not forget the attitude in the Obama administration that they are acting from a higher moral plane, and we ought to follow their dictates blindly.

On that subject, listen to Thomas Sowell talk about intellectuals and vision, at Uncommon Knowledge.

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December 21, 2006 By Fausta

Syrians at the Embassy, self-help, and today’s items

Dan Riehl’s post, Syria Attacked American Embassy, takes a second look at something he posted on last September.

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If you haven’t read Steve Salerno’s book, SHAM: How the Self-Help Movement Made America Helpless, but you watch daytime TV, you should read it. Shawn Macomber interviews Steve Salerno, Self-Help Cries Out for Help

“We are each, to varying degrees,” you write, “victims of ‘second-hand self-help.'” Further: “You may think Dr. Phil is the greatest thing since sliced bread, or you may chortle at his braggadocio and his sagebrush sagacity. But almost no one worries about Dr. Phil.” How, exactly are we with neither subscription to Oprah’s magazine nor $7000 tickets to a Tony Robbins weekend caught in that web? Why should we fear Dr. Phil?

SS: Where to begin? Moral relativism, with its blurring and rationalization of good and evil, comes directly out of self-help’s concept of “personal truth” — that is, each of us is entitled to define his private reality, with all such realities enjoying equal stature. Self-help also gave us the self-esteem movement, and its idea that the very worst thing you can do is hurt someone’s feelings. This has been especially disastrous in schools, where the practical effect is to teach kids to pride themselves on second-rate performance; test scores clearly show this. Today’s entitlement culture had its genesis at the intersection of those two constructs: self-esteem and personal truth. The “diseasing of America,” too, can be traced to AA’s successful crusade to de-stigmatize alcoholism. That reasoning has since been expanded to cover myriad behaviors that once were regarded as character flaws. Further, since diseases are things you have to recover from, companies now find themselves in the curious position of committing a disproportionate amount of resources to their least productive workers. You don’t just summarily fire people anymore. You send them to rehab. The menu now includes paid programs for substance abuse, gambling, “anger management,” sexual addiction, etc. Then there’s the whole Culture of Blame and all of its documented ills. At the other end of the spectrum, “empowerment” dogma is inducing millions of Americans to abandon medical orthodoxy and instead “tap their inner healing energies.” Major medical centers now include mind-body regimens as part of the overall treatment for no better reason than patients increasingly are asking for it. So you have medical protocols driven not by validated research, but by consumer demand. What a terrifying notion! I could go on and on.

Via Maria, self-help yourself to a nap.

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Also from Maria, Bert Preluski asks, Will Jimmy Carter please just go away? The problem is, every time Jimmy goes away he blesses the pseudo election of some tinpot dictator or another.
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Two videos via Stop the ACLU,
Scrappleface self-helped himself:

and also, Stuck Mojo:

Stuck Mojo reminds me of Iron Maiden, only with guts.
More on Stuck Mojo here. Here’s their official website.
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If you love French movies, you’ll love Hezbollah, Mon Amour

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